57.0 Stories You Didn't Know About Fake Nice People. How To Handle Every Fake People Challenge With Ease Using These Tips.

I hope the previous post helps you to Identify Fake People up to some extent. As I'm not a genius on this subject, you all can be the contributors to these articles. Then I also can improve my skills and take the correct decisions. Finally, all of our views help somebody to Identify Toxic and Fake People. They will know the way that they need to deal with them. So, this is a service, friends!

Before moving into jobs, I forgot one incident. It happened when I was doing my higher studies. It was the start of my higher studies, and it was a Computer Course arranged for beginners. Just after finishing the Advanced Levels examination, I wanted to join that computer course. So, it was an exciting course, and I did not have a Computer at home even. I went with my mother for the course registration. On the very first day of the course, I went with my father. At that time, there was a young boy to manage the student's stuff. He was a Handsome Boy and had an innocent look.

 

So, when I was coming back home, I said about his innocence look to my father. But he had a different view. He said that he looked like a Cunning Fox and he has the appearance of a thief. I could not believe his view, and I did not agree with him. I argued with him and pointed out my view. I asked him to tell me the reasons for his decision. 

Then my father pointed out that the way he looked at him was not a genuine one. Furthermore, my father said that he does not have confidence in his talks. Those two were the main things for my father's decision. But he was alright for me. I did not accept the points told by my father. I did not see any bad appearance in his handsome look. Lol... I think that appearance blinded me. Hah hah hah...

 

When we were going to computer labs, we got to know that he was a lab instructor. He was not a strict person like others and sometimes I did not hear the things he said. He spoke very softly. As the others were strict with students, he was the favorite one of most of us. It was a three-month Computer Course and he stayed during that time period. When some of the instructors left that place for High Paying Jobs, he stayed there for our course time period. It was a pleasure for us. We wanted to see him during our course duration. He was the Motivation for us to go to that class. Lol...

 

After finishing our course, all of us had to leave that place and I planned to go to the next level of the course. But it was not available in that location. My friends had some other plans. So, it was the end of one joyful time. One day, I got to know that our certifications are ready. After a few days, I went with a few friends to collect the certificate. At that time, we did not see that guy and we thought that he left for High Paying Job.

When we were meeting a new friend it was our first question." Hey, where is that guy? Did you see him?". In such a situation, one of our friends said that he was fired from the job. He had stolen some computers in the lab. It was Shocking News for all of us. I could not believe that incident also. I could not see the faces of some of my friends, and those were not good to see even after hearing about that bad news. However, it was the truth.

Appearance & Reality! At least I did not see any bad. On the very first day, my father could observe good signs. But I could not find out any clue though I had these observations in my mind. I don't know why? This time I think the nice appearance and some Soft Skills misled me. That appearance could cover his bad qualities. Luckily, he had a gentleman look with a handsome body. I think it was the case for all of us. Even my friends also did not tell any bad about him. All of us were in the same boat. Lol...

Decision Making Process! Therefore, I believe nobody can come to a decision by looking at the outer appearance. Sometimes you may think that he/she should be a nice person if they have a nice appearance. Sometimes you may think that he/she should be a bad person if they don't have an attractive appearance. Sometimes the decision you took by looking at the appearance will be correct too. But definitely, you should think about the behavior. Basically, you should think about the functionality behind that physical body. There are nice cars that have not worked. As well as there will be moderate look cars that have fast speed. Nothing can be judged by appearance.

Fear Of Change! The other thing is everything is getting changed. The person who measured by others as "good", will not be a good person anymore after a few years. The person who measured by others as "bad", will not be a bad person anymore after a few years. Sometimes maybe within the next few seconds. Therefore, we cannot depend on our predefined decisions or current decisions. Everything will be changed with time.

Blindness! So, once you decided a person as a good fellow, don't depend on that thought forever. It does not let you see his/her bad side and you will act as blind when you are dealing with them. Finally, they will end up their chapters in your life by giving surprises.

Become A Better Person! As well as once you decided a person as a bad fellow, don't depend on that thought forever. He/She has enough facts and reasons to be a good person in this universe. If you cannot see in that way, they do not have a chance to be a better person. My final thought is you should be awake at every moment. Every moment gets changed and you or I cannot measure the speed of the changes. It happens in every moment.

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48.0 Do Eyebrows Sometimes Make You Feel Stupid? No More Mistakes With Eyebrows.

The very first time I went to a salon for a facial cleanup for one of my friend's wedding. At that time, there were no pimple issues or patches on my face. However, there was a beauty procedure for both the bride and her friends. I was her bride's maid, and that preparation time was an enjoyable time for our gang. It was a new experience. Clean Up Is Fun! 

We helped her to arrange some stuff like cakes and cards. Apart from all, the dressings and beauty stuff managed via one salon. So, our bride got various instructions for beauty improvements. Meanwhile, she pointed out some of our beauty issues as well, and it impressed us to think about our beauty. 

At that time, I have not shaped my eyebrows though my friends and cousins also threaded their eyebrows nicely. Though they asked me to do that, I gave up as it was a painful thing. So, it was the main request of the salon owner. She wanted to shape it. However, finally, I agreed with her for the sake of my friend's wedding. So, she threaded one eyebrow very slowly, and it was a painful thing at its first time. Therefore, I did not let her go for the next one after completing one eyebrow. 

Trim Eyebrows! Though my friends blamed me, I requested some time gap. However, she was kind enough to consider my request, and I had a weird look with the original eyebrow and shaped eyebrow. Lol... However, the final look made me happy. Everyone said that it lighted up my face. I also thought that I would do that early to have that look. Actually, that new look could give me a new year's dawn feel. Hah hah ha... 

After that, I used to thread my eyebrows once it has grown up. As I thought that it was not neat to keep a grew eyebrows, it was a very essential beauty thing to do for me. I think it is growing like a jungle after shaping it one time. Then you cannot get rid of that job, and it would be a mandatory beauty task to do. So, once I went to that salon for eyebrows threading, all the time that lady asked about upper lips. She wanted to thread those as well, though I have not much-grown hair on upper lips. However, I could reject her suggestion kindly. 

One day when I was waiting for my appointment, one girl came for eyebrows threading. She wanted to thread both eyebrows and upper lip area. She was fine when threading eyebrows. Perfect Eyebrows! But tears were coming out like a water tap when she was threading her upper lip area. I thought that why did she bear up that much of pain, even for her beauty. As well as she did not have hairy upper lips. I think sometimes our mind wants some unnecessary expectations. There was one of my friends who had hairy upper lips like a boy. As she had very fair skin, it highlighted well. However, she also did not want to thread it. She kept it as it is those days.

I think the shape of eyebrows could change the look of your face up to some extent. I had to believe that once I went to another salon for threading. As it was a famous salon in our area, I did not have any doubts about their service. So, I went there to shape my eyebrows. The only advice I'm giving to salon guys was 'don't make it too thin. I don't like that artificial look. So, I just wanted to keep the shape by removing the additional. So, she agreed with me. She was not like others. She had a procedure. 

The salon I went to other days did not take much time for threading, and it was a quick job for her. Sometimes she was careless. She did not apply any cream prior to threading. So, most of the times I applied a lot of cream in the eyebrow area before going to that salon. But here, it was different. I could say that she cared a lot.  First, she cleaned the eyebrow area using a mild cologne. Then she applied a cream and massaged gently. As she was taking time again, I remembered my request 'don't make it too thin. She agreed again, saying 'sure. I will only remove the additional.

How To Fill In Eyebrows? Lol... Finally, she started threading. Not like the other salon owner, she used a tweezer instead of thread. Meantime she answered some phone calls from other customer appointments. I did not feel angry or anything about her phone calls. But I worried about my eyebrows. Can she concentrate on my work while hanging on with her friends? That was the only worry, I had on my mind at that time. 

Apart from phone calls, she went to the counter to get the payments of other customers who finished. So, I had an idle time from time to time. To cover all those tasks, she got more than fifteen minutes, I think. Finally, she said that the job was over by giving a hand mirror to me. Furthermore, she said that she just removed the additional without making it too thin. Once I looked at, I got to know the weird status of eyebrows.

However, it was late to say something or scold her as it was already done. After that, for any emergency, I did not change the salon I went to threading. One time I stayed for more than six months with the grown eyebrows once that salon's lady went for training overseas. I waited for her. Apart from me, many friends I knew waited for her without going to other salons if there were no emergency requirements like hair coloring.

At that time, I thought that the quality of the service is good enough to keep the customer base. Customer Returns! Actually, her customer retention was very high. So, once she came, it was not easy to make an appointment. I had to wait for another few days. But I did not select another salon because of that bad experience. Lol…

Groom Eyebrows! One day when I was waiting for a bus at the bus stand, I saw a boy who had a nice face. I observed something different on his face, and I thought that what could be the thing that gave that kind of attraction. So, after looking at his face for two to three times, I noticed his eyebrows. He could shape it by keeping his gent's personality too. That was the main point I observed. 

Finally, he noticed my observation. When I was looking at him again, he raised his eyebrows a few times. I think he acknowledged that he had threaded eyebrows. It made both of us laugh though we did not know each other. It was a Monday morning, and I was on the way to the office from home. I think that "Monday issue was the main reason for that weird behavior. Lol...

 

43.0 Let's Enjoy A Fruit Juice With Zero Sugar My Friends

I would like to put a note about 'fruit juice. I would like to offer my gratitude to one of my favorite drinks via this post. As well as this is a lovely gift for all fruit juice lovers around the world.

 

Actually, I did not use to drink fruit juice regularly in my school days and the higher studies era. I could say that I addicted to drink fruit juice because of the evening walk that scheduled two to three days per week after the office. It has totally stopped now as I'm not an office employee anymore. But still, that evening walk is on my schedule. 

I cannot remember the exact day I started drinking fruit juice. However, some fruit juice shops located on the route I used for my evening walk impressed me to have fruit juice. Plus, the thirsty I had after walking a few miles could be another reason. Somehow, I had a nice glass of fruit juice. A big glass of juice.

Most of the time I had Avocado juice and I switched to some other fruits if they did not have Avocado only. So, I did not need to order the juice type as they knew my choice. They asked me to order something if they did not have my favorite. As I used to have an Avocado smoothie with yogurt, sometimes they asked my preference. Otherwise, I just sat and waited for my juice if I wanted to have a normal one. Both parties had that mutual understanding.

That ordering mechanism was a relief for me, especially after office hours. After giving and receiving instructions for about nine hours, their understanding made me happy. I did not want to put an effort to have my drink except money. So, all those reasons dragged me there. I was like an ant, I think. Lol...

There were three shops and, most of the time I went to one shop because of the quality of the juice. As well as it's located on the route I used. One young boy was there. He managed that shop by preparing and serving fruit juice to the customers. As it was not a much-crowded place, he could manage his customers without the support of others. The location of that shop would be a reason for fewer customers, I think. But there were a few offices near the main road and they were regular customers. Though they did not visit the place, they ordered fruit juice and these guys delivered to them. That shop was famous among many because of its better quality.

They did not cheat their customers. For my drink, they prepared one glass using one Avocado and did not mix water much. Therefore, the required thickness was there, and it made a quality juice. After instructing the required sugar level for a few days, he knew the sugar preference also. He could remember the preferences of each customer and I think it's his capability. One day he said that 'Miss, I did not put sugar at all for your drink though I put some sugar for your friend. My cousin's sister also a regular customer. Once we went there, he thought that we were friends.

I did not drink Avocado with yogurt regularly. I felt sleepy after drinking it, and I did not want to walk anymore. One of my friends said that there won't be any progress in my exercises because of this fruit juice. 

She said that it would add more calories than burnt calories. Lol… However, I did not forget my Avocado juice. Even after the walk, I had a very light diet for dinner once I had that yogurt smoothie. It was that much heavy drink. However, it is a very nutritious drink.  Especially it is good food for vegetarian people like me. They can gain enough protein via Avocado and yogurt.

You know, one-day everything got changed by proving the uncertainty of everything. As usual, I went to my favorite shop to have my Avocado drink. Everything was happening as usual except for one thing which could change the view of my Avocado drink. 

At that time, I was enjoying my drink by reading a magazine which kept on my table, and my fruit juice friend started cleaning the stuff he used for juice preparation. I think I was the last customer on that day according to the time. Therefore, he arranged things to close the shop. He cleaned the jugs and glasses and kept them in a cupboard. He kept some additional fruits in the fridge. Finally, he took the blender to clean. First, he washed it with water and put some dish wash liquid to clean. Then he took a toothbrush and brushed the inside. It was a very unpleasant scene for me and at that time I almost finished my drink. I could not drink the last portion.

I wanted to vomit the entire drink. I started to think that he was not using someone's brush. As it is easy to clean the inside via a toothbrush, it might be his choice. So, I quickly made the payment and left. When I was telling the same with my cousin, she also said that he won't use a used toothbrush. However, after that incident, I could not drink juice from that shop anymore. I stopped drinking fruit juice for a couple of months. I did not go to any shop.

After resetting my mind, I went to another shop to have fruit juice. From the time I went there, I tried to observe the things available in their tables. There were jugs, glasses, sugar, ice, fruits, yogurts, soap, dishwasher, brushes and all. 

But I could not see any toothbrush. I checked near the blender as well. Finally, it was not there. So, I had the drink but I could not have it peacefully. It brought millions of doubts to my mind. Though it was not a nice one like my previous place, I went to that shop for my evening walk drink.

Everything was fine except the owner of that shop. He wanted to know every silly personal detail. I would give him a filled KYC (Know your customer) form as a bank customer. 

As it was an annoying thing to have a chat with him, and most of the times I shared the wrong information with him, later on, I choose another shop. There were a few girls in that shop to prepare fruit juice and sometimes the owner also joined with them. Most of the times he took the duty once those girls finished their duty and left. The quality of their fruit juice was good. But most of the time, my choice 'Avocado was not there. However, I went to that shop.

One day I met that fruit juice guy (Mr. Toothbrush) and he said that he did not see me for a long time. He asked why I did not come to have fruit juice. I wanted to say 'please don't use a toothbrush to clean the blender. But I told him that I'm working on a new office and using another route to come back. Lol…

By the way, what is your favorite fruit? Avocado? Great... I added you to my friends' list. However, try to have it with less/zero sugar buddy. 

38.0 Why Did Our Boarding Mistress Keep Us Idiots At Her Home? Lol...

Any of us did not stay at the boarding place on weekends. But if we had full-day classes on weekends also, then we stayed there. In such a situation, I stayed on the weekend and, others went to the home. 

I switched on lights in both rooms for the whole night. But she did not blame me. When I was suffering from a fever, she gave a cup of medicine to me and, waited until I drink. I think she took care of me than the others. 

Most of the auntie’s children lived in some other countries and, one son visited her annually. Those days aunty planned to go there and live with him. So, aunty asked all of us to go to our homes when her son returned to Sri Lanka for vacations. So, the boarding place was a prohibited area for us for about two weeks. 

Aunty was getting ready to welcome her son and, she put a lot of effort to make the necessary arrangements. She wanted to cook all the delicious foods during these two weeks and, she arranged the home stuff also nicely. She colored the home and, polished all the furniture. It was like new year dawn for her and, her face also lightened up with the arrival of his son. 

We also felt genuine happiness for her. The things she sacrificed for their children was amazing. It is all about a mother's unconditional love and kindness. Nothing else. I think that she bore up a lot of problems alone. Today I could understand her behavior and mentality as an adult though we could not understand her those days. Most of the times we saw some negative aspects through her strict behaviors. But those days we never think about the causes of those issues. If I stayed there now, I would listen and take care of her without considering her as the owner of our boarding place. When thinking back again, I could not understand ourselves as well. I think we were in a dream world.

If I could ask her to go through this blog post, I know that she will go back to that same strict mood again by remembering us. Then she will give good feedback also. However, I do not like to think about whether she is alive or not. The result will not be a positive one. 

Sometimes aunty also gets pissed off for the crazy things we played. So, it was a memorable day for all of us. As this boarding place was close to the main road, sometimes, we looked at the main road without any reason. It was a relief for us to look at different people and vehicles for a few minutes once we were tired of our studies. Gradually, it became a habit to watch outside via a window glass though aunty asked us not to open that window. 

One day we opened the whole window in an evening because of the hot climate. Meantime, we watched outside as well and, one of our friends talked to a boy she knew. At that time, that boy was going for a class. Now our guy totally forgot the rules, and she started a chat with him by putting her head outside. Her voice volume was high and, she forgot to reduce her voice, even though some of us warned her. As our time is always good, aunty noticed it within a few minutes, and she came to us. We did not have any space to tell our friend, and aunty went to her like a rocket. Even though she said something, it did not come out. 

There was a noise like 'Boh Boh' instead of words, and her eyes brightened up like fire burns. When she was coming there, my heart was melting like butter. But later on, I could not stop laughing by looking at her, my friend and, hearing that 'Boh Boh' noise. However, she blamed us for more than one hour. Later on, she reminded it again and, again. It was like a daily schedule running in her mind for a specific time. Earlier we frightened and listened to her carefully. Later on, we remembered her 'Boh Boh' noise and, managed our laughter hardly. Sometimes, I think it killed me. If something happened to her high blood pressure, then it will not be a joke anymore. 

At that time, we were not in a situation to request her to reduce her anger. If we ask her, definitely she will hit us using anything. Then it will be a murder case. However, she did not inform our parents, though she threatened us. Finally, she ranked us as the worst boarding mates, she found during her lifetime.

There was a fire at the boarding house and, it was an unforgettable incident for me. I never faced such a situation before and, it showed the clues of our deaths. It happened because of the doctor who was in the dispensary. That dispensary was next to us and, earlier it belonged to auntie's home. So, it was very close to our room.  

In those days some people worked against doctors who were doing private practice during the day time. They suggested that it was an unethical practice to earn money during their working hours. So, this doctor ignored that situation and, did his same routines as usual. As he was not obedient, an unknown party set the fire in his dispensary. Except for aunty, only me and one boarding mate were there on that day. At that time, my bed was so close to the room entrance and, it was not my preferred place. So, as there were free beds of my other mates, I changed my bed. That bed was near to the wall which connected to that dispensary. 

There was a closed glass window also. That night, I saw the fire on the other side of the room and, I saw it as a dream. It took a few minutes for me to realize it as an actual incident. As soon as possible I quickly informed my friend and aunty. Both of us shocked and, could not think about our next steps. Then aunty contacted the police station and, meantime, we moved our books into another place. 

However, the fire did not spread to our side. The police crowd put a generous effort and, there were some of our neighbors also. However, we did not try to support them as auntie stopped the water at night as a daily practice. But she had to provide water on that night and, it stopped her bad habit also. After that, she did not close the water supply at night. Later on, she thanked me a lot as I was the one who saw the fire.

I think, though there are close friends in your boarding place, you cannot equal it to your home. However, I think it is helpful for anyone to identify the worth of your home. You would feel it better when you are staying in such a place only. As well as it is a good life exposure where you can learn the society.

34.0 Are GHOSTS Real?? What Do You Think?

Though the death of somebody brings worries to our hearts and, the word 'GHOST gives a scary feeling, there are some memories which could bring a smile. 

Therefore, I thought to share those with you all and, I hope you also enjoyed those incidents. However, when there was our crew, either my cousins or besties, it was a kind of other craziness though it brought some disciplinary issues.

The very first memory was the funeral house of my school friend's father. He was not well for a long time and, he suffered a lot till death. So, for that funeral, all of our classmates went there after school. Some of her closest school friends went there early without coming to school also. So, when we were going there, there were a few kids who were playing in the yard. We also seated in the yard and, after a few minutes we were idling and, it was a boring time for all of us. So, we asked one kid to come and, asked a few questions. Likewise, we spoke to some other kids and, did the same. 

Among them, there was a small boy, and he did not respond to our questions. He tried to leave us. So, one of my friends kept on asking him to come. But he ignored us and went inside the home. After a couple of minutes, we saw that he was coming with a stick. Though he gave a devil look, we did not care as he was a small one.

When he was coming to us by hanging that stick, we could realize that he came to hit us. As we thought he hit us like a crazy devil by asking us to leave. Lol... As we kept on asking some questions, he also did the same by kept on asking us to leave. He did not forget to punish us until we leave the funeral house. I could remember that some of my friends went to meet our friend also as there was no way to get rid of him. Finally, that 4 to 5 years old kid scared 14 years old girls’ gang. Lol…

The other incident happened in the funeral house of an uncle who was a family friend. He passed away in his mid-era of his life. He had four children. So, once I went there with my parents, his wife and daughter were weeping. 

Though others tried to console them, it was not an easy thing. They were fed up with crying and, I think they were unconscious about the things they told at that time because of their loss. I could not hide my tears when looking at that aunt and sister. I worried about them than the death of that uncle.

So, when they were murmuring, suddenly, that aunt said 'Ohh... My smart and handsome husband left me. At that time, I could not stop my laugh as I could not stop my tears. However, I controlled it very hard as my mother was there. Otherwise, she would blame me. Actually, it was not a reason to laugh. But always it made me laugh when it comes to my mind. Still, it was a silly quote for me. At that time my mother was so serious and, I could not see a single clue for a smile on her face. But once we came home, she said the same and it made her laugh too. That was the most interesting thing. Lol... I know it's not good to laugh at such a situation. It may be because of my bad qualities or something else.

This incident happened during my higher studies era. I was coming home after the lectures. On that day there was a funeral of our neighbor. It was around 8 or clock and, my father could not come to the bus halt to pick me as he was busy with funeral chores. 

On that day he gave a dinner for the funeral home. So, a bunch of people worked in our yard for its preparations. Therefore, I had to come alone, and there were a few meters from the bus halt to our house. So, I'm coming towards the home. Suddenly, oh my god, that dead man was coming towards me. That's what I saw. I could not imagine what's happening and, I could not think about my next action. I wanted to run, hide somewhere and, SCREAM... But I didn't do anything. I stood on the road like a stone that cannot be moved. But he is coming and, now there was a short distance between both of us.

Suddenly he smiled and said that 'I came to my brother's funeral. His smile was different than the dead one. He was intelligent to tell it at that moment. Otherwise, I would be sick and till then I thought that he was a ghost. Lol... So, as soon as I went home, I asked about his siblings from my mother. Then she said that he was a twin. At that time, I' met his other twin who could kill me.

The other ghost-related incident happened when I was coming to my uncles' place from my former office.  The time was around 7 p.m., and I had to walk a few meters after getting down from the bus. It was a private road, and there was no crowd except for a few people who were living in that housing scheme. So, on that day nobody on that road and, I walked as usual. Suddenly, I heard the noise of a girl and, it was like a murmuring.

As I could not see anyone, I did not search for that voice and, walked. Again, I heard a soft voice saying 'Hello miss. Then I looked back and noticed a young lady with a small baby. There was a very short distance between us and, at that time, I could not realize that how did she come closer to me without my attention. She had a weird look though she kept a smile on her face. I was afraid like nothing and, a lady ghost called 'Mohini' came to my mind suddenly. As per the myths, she is following men not women. But it did not come to my mind and, I wanted to run. However, as usual, I could not move my legs for a few seconds. She was also staying in the same position without moving. So, we were looking at us for a few seconds, and I came very quickly.

At that time, my cousin's sister was also there and, I told that incident. She wanted to go back and, find her. But I did not come with her. Later on, she saw a young woman with a baby in one evening. She was an innocent beggar.

However, I have a bit of scary memory in my childhood. At that time, I was about 3-4 years old kid. It was not a clear memory. Still, I could not realize whether it was an actual incident or a dream I saw. So, I'm not going to write it here. However, it was in the corner of my mind. If they exist, they are also other souls in our universe. That's my view. What do you think?

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