Friday, January 24, 2020
62.0 Best Bath Tips You Will Read This Year. How To Enjoy Your Bath Time?
Nature! We could take water easily. It required less effort as the water level came to the top. Even a small child could take water and have a bath. It was not a crowded place as well. My father did not come to that place as he used to have a bath at night. So, I went there with my mother and sister. When time allowed, we three went there. It was a memorable place because of a few reasons. One thing is its location. I loved that well which situated in a green area. The other thing is there was clean and cool water because of "Kumbuk" trees exist near the paddy field. The other thing is still, I can remember how did my mother wash my wound once we went to that well. It was a remarkable wound and it is another story. That Wound Story.
Wednesday, January 15, 2020
61.0 Want To Have A More Appealing Facial Expressions? Read This! Mesmerizing Examples Of Facial Expressions.
What do you think about your Facial Expressions? Can you hide it when you want to do so? Or do you express your real expressions as it is though it is not pleasant to others? You can decide at the end of this topic. Till then, I will share some of my experiences. Sometimes, you may think that this is not an important thing to discuss. But I wanted to bring this to you. I think this is an important thing to consider according to my view.
Can you read the Facial Expressions of your family members at least? Do you ignore the facial expression of your office colleague once you feel that it brings you some disadvantages? Do you want some more facts to verify your observation to approve the things that you identified via Facial Expressions? Or do you accept someone's facial expressions as it is without any other facts? Sometimes, you may have your answers. Some of you may think about your answers. Read my stuff, and it will help you to think broadly and come to a decision.
If I tell you about myself, some of my friends have told me that they cannot read my Facial Expressions. Once they told me that, I felt so happy. Lol... Then I thought that I can hide the facial expressions that I do not want to show it to others. One day when I was working at a previous workplace, I was so tired, and on that day, I worked till around 9 p.m. So, it was enough for the day. I got this response from one of my friends there when I could not laugh for a joke shared by one of our colleagues. Though the others laughed a lot, I could not laugh with Expressions. So, it was a laugh without an expression. Then it was another joke for them. It was their next topic. Lol... I think tiredness was the main problem.
I forgot to share this thing with you before moving to that incident. In the school era, as you know, we had a joyful time. We lived with Laughter. We could not hide it for any serious reason. Even the punishment time gave joy to us if we did not get a slap from a teacher or principal. When it comes to slap, it was a different story. In that era, I could say that we laughed at everything. We were like mad creatures. So, when we were trying to identify a solution to this problem, one of my friends asked to think about a sad incident to avoid laughter. It was a good solution, and it worked up to some extent.
However, there were some situations where we could not manage it. In such a case, one of our teachers blamed me for something saying "I can see the laughter in your eyes though you did not laugh". She was correct. At that time, I was trying to avoid my laughter when she was blaming me. But she was clever to see it via my eyes. Once she told that, I laughed as usual, and it increased her anger. Lol...
Those days she did not like me and there was a valid reason for her to do so. One day I called her "Aunt" instead of "Madam". Though I did not do it intentionally, it made me laugh at the end, and I said "Sorry" by keeping that smile. So, I think it would be like a slap to her. After that, I said sorry for a few times in serious mode. But it did not work well. I think she kept the first facial expressions on her mind. So, she had many reasons for me to blame, and I think she was the one who could read my Facial Expressions well on those days. Lol...
So, when it comes to others, I have observed the Facial Expressions of people. It is fun to see the difference between their words and expressions. But some situations made me sad. Sometimes it is a pain to identify the real face. But it depends on few facts like friendship, relationship, etc..
You may feel sad once you identify the person as a bad one, who you believed. You may feel happy once you identify the person as a bad one, who you suspected. So, it depends. I hope you can understand what I'm telling you. Think about your thoughts when you see the sorrow on the face of someone who loves you after hearing good news about you.
However, I have never communicated it to them, and I did it for my information only. I did not share my observations with others, except very few incidents. Most of the time, I think we ignore this observation if we feel that we may have disadvantages after letting them know about that. I can remember how did some of our seniors ask us to stay till late for work, though they can see the pain and tiredness from our faces. I think that the above reason was the thing for them to act so. I know. It is true up to some extent. If somebody can act well, then he/she will show you Fake Expressions to get your sympathy. So, it needs to decide very carefully.
When thinking about such incidents happened in the workplace, there are many to reveal. But I do think that nobody can take benefits from them. However, I felt happy about this subject and the job as we can show our facial expressions as it is, though it is pleasant or not. Certain jobs do not allow the employees to show their actual status as it is. So, we are lucky guys. Most of the people cannot see our face even. They are also lucky, I think. Lol...
So, this incident happened to a waiter in a five-star hotel. It was a Sunday, and at that time there were fewer employees. So, she had to carry on the work on behalf of other colleagues as well. I could see the anger and tiredness on her face. She got a huge effort to hide it from customers. The other person also a waiter and he was also a team member. When I was working on my observation job, he could identify it. When he was pouring tea into my cup, his Face talks many sorrows. But he turned it back to a Smile and wished me a good day once he noticed my observation. I think that they are some people who work for us by giving a pleasant service by forgetting their personal worries. But you cannot have the same experience at every place, though you are a customer.
If you would like to read more on this you can go through this article as well. Have You Ever Observed The Meaning of Someones' Smile?
Thursday, January 2, 2020
60.0 If You Don't Love Them Now, You'll Hate Yourself Later. A Million Lessons About Parent's Love You Need To Know Before You Die.
First of all, I would like to wish you a Happy New Year 2020!
I wish this new year brings you success, joy, love, and peace. Though we need the success of everything, I believe the development of good thoughts in our mind is the most important thing that we all should do as humans. We may arrange parties; we may wear new clothes to welcome the new year. But, how many of us wanted to clean our spirits by removing bad qualities we have. In this new year dawn, I thought to improve the spiritual side of life.
Apart from that, I thought not to discuss the bad side of people, though they filled up with many bad qualities. I know it is not an easy effort. But we should try at least to gain the benefits of humanity. Apart from that, some developments are required for my career. I hope you all have many hopes and plans for this new year. I wish you a happy new year again!
In this new year dawn, I would like to bring you some important memories I have about a parent's love. Sometimes, you may be a parent now. Though you are either a parent or child, I hope this article will be a sensitive one for you all. Sometimes, it will bring joy as well as tears for your eye. You will think about the lovely memories you have.
Some parents are showing love to their children. But some of them do not do that. Though their hearts filled with lots of love, they do not show it to their children. My parents are a hybrid version of these two. Lol... My mother does not show it and my father is the one who shows it to us. So, in certain cases we thought that our mother did not love us. He he he... But later on, I thought that it was a wrong thought. At that time, she was in the hospital for heart surgery. At that time, I just have moved to my higher studies after school education. So, she had to stay there for a few weeks. It was a hard time for me, my father and my sister. We were afraid of her surgery. Time to time all of us went to visit her. Once done, she was taken to the hospital ward. But she could not talk well because of the pain.
On that day I went to visit her alone. It was evening time. Though I went there by bus, I did not know the place to take a bus to come back. So, when I was asking about the route from one of my uncles, she was listening to it. Then she asked that uncle to drop me to the bus halt without letting me go alone. She took an effort to communicate it and she repeated the same a few times. It made me sad. Though I asked her to stop talking, it was not her pain. She worried about the problem I had at that time. When I was telling this to one of my friends, she could not talk, and tears came to her eye.
If I tell you about my father, he was the one who did everything for my success. He was our shadow. He was with us for everything. When my mother was doing all the home stuff without giving to us, my father provided guidance and financial support. If he earned one penny, it was for his children, us. He did not spend money on himself. He was the one who prepared a lot for our journey of success. He planned for it than us.
When I was starting my own thing as a career, he had many plans. He wanted to allocate a separate space from the new house that we are building now. When I was telling him that I do not require such a space for my work, I got to know that he allocated that space by imagining a higher success level in my career. It brought a smile to me. But he was serious.
In the early era of my career, I had to go for many interviews to find out a suitable job. When I was going for job interviews, he came with me for each interview. Sometimes, he waited for five to six hours in the vehicle. But he did not worry about it though I asked him to don’t wait. When I was going on a school trip I stayed in a boarding house at that time. We were planning to leave in the early morning. Before we leave, he came to drop me to school and brought lunch as well. To prepare it, I think my mother should wake up around 3.00 a.m. It was their sacrifice for their children. Though there were no more than 100 meters to school from the boarding place, he wanted to make sure it as a safe journey.
They were happy with our achievements. They encouraged us when there were failures. They had good points to encourage us, and they never blamed for the failures. I can remember the happiness in my father's eyes when I was using a laptop for my work. I could see a proud father. However, it changed soon, as I stuck to it for my job work and studies. Lol...
I saw many proud parents during my lifetime. I saw their proudness in the success of their children. One day I went to a shop to buy some stuff, and we know that family well. It was a small business a few years back, and they developed it gradually with their effort. When it was a small business, the father of that family managed the cashier and his wife issued the goods to the customers. They have a few kids, and we could see them once we went there.
When I was going there after that development, I saw that his daughter was managing the cashier role. Her parents stayed at the shop by helping her. That girl did her job well, and her parents happily worked with her. It was a happy unit. They arranged a nice table and chair for her to do her work. It was a modern cashier room. I also felt happy for them. At that time, I thought about the happiness that parents have for her daughter. It was a memorable scenery. At that time, I remembered how my parents arranged a nice table and chair for my studies after taking good grades for all the subjects for one school term examination.
Recently I saw how parents celebrate the success of their children who passed the Advance level examination well. Some students explained the parent's effort for their success. One student said that his father skipped some meals, and gave to him. He starved for his son. That was their effort. I think nobody could listen to that talk without tears, and it was a sensitive story.
I think such a sacrifice can be done by parents only. None of them in this world exists to light up the children's life path by protecting them. They are the one who was removing barriers of our paths. I have read a story about their love. In that story, they gave a tree as an example. That tree gives food and shelter to their kids. Time to time it offers leaves and wood as medicine and other support. Once it decayed, it lets the human to sell the wood by cutting that tree after offering food and shelter. It was the final help. It was a really good example of a parent's love. They give till their last blood drop to their children.
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