61.0 Want To Have A More Appealing Facial Expressions? Read This! Mesmerizing Examples Of Facial Expressions.

What do you think about your Facial Expressions? Can you hide it when you want to do so? Or do you express your real expressions as it is though it is not pleasant to others? You can decide at the end of this topic. Till then, I will share some of my experiences. Sometimes, you may think that this is not an important thing to discuss. But I wanted to bring this to you. I think this is an important thing to consider according to my view.

Can you read the Facial Expressions of your family members at least? Do you ignore the facial expression of your office colleague once you feel that it brings you some disadvantages? Do you want some more facts to verify your observation to approve the things that you identified via Facial Expressions? Or do you accept someone's facial expressions as it is without any other facts? Sometimes, you may have your answers. Some of you may think about your answers. Read my stuff, and it will help you to think broadly and come to a decision.

If I tell you about myself, some of my friends have told me that they cannot read my Facial Expressions. Once they told me that, I felt so happy. Lol...  Then I thought that I can hide the facial expressions that I do not want to show it to others. One day when I was working at a previous workplace, I was so tired, and on that day, I worked till around 9 p.m. So, it was enough for the day. I got this response from one of my friends there when I could not laugh for a joke shared by one of our colleagues. Though the others laughed a lot, I could not laugh with Expressions. So, it was a laugh without an expression. Then it was another joke for them. It was their next topic. Lol... I think tiredness was the main problem.

I forgot to share this thing with you before moving to that incident. In the school era, as you know, we had a joyful time. We lived with Laughter.  We could not hide it for any serious reason. Even the punishment time gave joy to us if we did not get a slap from a teacher or principal. When it comes to slap, it was a different story. In that era, I could say that we laughed at everything. We were like mad creatures. So, when we were trying to identify a solution to this problem, one of my friends asked to think about a sad incident to avoid laughter. It was a good solution, and it worked up to some extent.

However, there were some situations where we could not manage it. In such a case, one of our teachers blamed me for something saying "I can see the laughter in your eyes though you did not laugh". She was correct. At that time, I was trying to avoid my laughter when she was blaming me. But she was clever to see it via my eyes. Once she told that, I laughed as usual, and it increased her anger. Lol...

Those days she did not like me and there was a valid reason for her to do so. One day I called her "Aunt" instead of "Madam". Though I did not do it intentionally, it made me laugh at the end, and I said "Sorry" by keeping that smile. So, I think it would be like a slap to her. After that, I said sorry for a few times in serious mode. But it did not work well.  I think she kept the first facial expressions on her mind. So, she had many reasons for me to blame, and I think she was the one who could read my Facial Expressions well on those days. Lol...

 

So, when it comes to others, I have observed the Facial Expressions of people. It is fun to see the difference between their words and expressions. But some situations made me sad. Sometimes it is a pain to identify the real face. But it depends on few facts like friendship, relationship, etc.. 

You may feel sad once you identify the person as a bad one, who you believed. You may feel happy once you identify the person as a bad one, who you suspected. So, it depends. I hope you can understand what I'm telling you. Think about your thoughts when you see the sorrow on the face of someone who loves you after hearing good news about you.

However, I have never communicated it to them, and I did it for my information only. I did not share my observations with others, except very few incidents. Most of the time, I think we ignore this observation if we feel that we may have disadvantages after letting them know about that. I can remember how did some of our seniors ask us to stay till late for work, though they can see the pain and tiredness from our faces. I think that the above reason was the thing for them to act so. I know. It is true up to some extent. If somebody can act well, then he/she will show you Fake Expressions to get your sympathy. So, it needs to decide very carefully.

When thinking about such incidents happened in the workplace, there are many to reveal. But I do think that nobody can take benefits from them. However, I felt happy about this subject and the job as we can show our facial expressions as it is, though it is pleasant or not. Certain jobs do not allow the employees to show their actual status as it is. So, we are lucky guys. Most of the people cannot see our face even. They are also lucky, I think. Lol...

So, this incident happened to a waiter in a five-star hotel. It was a Sunday, and at that time there were fewer employees. So, she had to carry on the work on behalf of other colleagues as well. I could see the anger and tiredness on her face. She got a huge effort to hide it from customers. The other person also a waiter and he was also a team member. When I was working on my observation job, he could identify it. When he was pouring tea into my cup, his Face talks many sorrows. But he turned it back to a Smile and wished me a good day once he noticed my observation. I think that they are some people who work for us by giving a pleasant service by forgetting their personal worries. But you cannot have the same experience at every place, though you are a customer. 

If you would like to read more on this you can go through this article as well. Have You Ever Observed The Meaning of Someones' Smile?

53.0 How To Control Hunger As A Vegetarian? A Vege Story!

How To Get Visa? Ohh No! It was not easy to prepare the necessary documents for Visa approval. For the very first pilgrimage tour, I had a temporary certification. Therefore, I had to prepare the documents, including my passport. As that country requires a Visa, I had to take a letter from my office. There were many rules associated with the Visa application, and it was not an easy task.

It required the approval of many, though it has scheduled for four days including two weekdays. Some of my cousins wondered after hearing about the approval process. For them, the approval of their immediate supervisor was enough and they did not take time to prepare that letter. But as usual, my case was different and I had to follow up on it for a couple of days. Sometimes I thought that I would not be able to go there. So, it was an additional pressure apart from the work schedule.

Meantime, I arranged a traveling bag to put my stuff. I think I had to spend a half-day to do that job. I went with my cousin's sister to buy that and one of my friends asked me to check the quality properly. She could not use the bag for more than two days after buying from such a shop. So, I wanted to have the Best Travel Bag. 

Apart from that, I arranged suitable clothes for the journey. It was not a hassle as I decided to wear what I had because I almost kept a reasonable amount of the main expenses. I could say that there were about three weeks of preparation time. However, I was glad about the journey. All of us thought about the places that we can travel once we went there. So, it was a pleasure for all of us.



Except for a few including my sister, most of the cousins joined the tour. The union of all of us was another thing that made us happy. So, we were counting the days for our journey. A few days before the journey, I packed all my stuff in the bag and made sure that I bought everything. During this period, I added and removed some stuff. Lol... So, it was another job. As it is required to print the name and address on the bag, still I can remember the way I did that. I took a few copies of the details to use if required and pasted one there. But when I was looking at the others, the font size was big. It is bigger than the others, and it was a shame for me. After dragging it to a few places itself, tapes pasted on the corners get removed. So, it had a funny look. Sometimes it made me angry as I had to paste it a couple of times. Lol...

After many preparations and checking, finally, we got into the plane. Traveling By Plane! Lol... So, our guys who had the corner seats near the window felt happy like nothing. So, the others planned to take that seat when returning. We discussed to exchange our seats also to get that opportunity. Hah hah ha... I don't know what do you think about our gang. Lol... 

Once we reached there, a person came from our hotel as arranged, and he picked us from the airport. Most of our guys said that we could have a city tour when going from the airport to the hotel. First few minutes, we saw the beauty of that area once we got into that vehicle. But after a few minutes, all of us fell asleep. One of our cousin brothers told us everybody slept well except him.
 

The hotel provided breakfast only with that package. If required, we should order lunch and dinner separately. But we forgot to do that, and we had to go out for dinner. No one brought biscuits even. So, all of us went out and searched for a good restaurant to have dinner. After checking for a few places, we realized that the price is high in most of the food courts. Therefore, we checked the known brands like "Pizza Hut", "Burger King", etc... However, those places located a bit far, and we did not go there. We did not use a taxi even, as it was the first day we came, and we could not get relevant information from the hotel or our travel guide.

As I was vegetarian, the others also had to search for a Vegetarian Diet. All of the others were non-veg. I think it was an additional burden for them under that condition.  Therefore, I asked them to have food, saying that I can manage dinner with a small thing. However, it did not work, and we thought not to consider the price. So, it was our first dinner experience, and once we returned, we checked for the restaurants that have all food varieties.

Then we identified some Indian restaurants and most of us liked to have Indian food. So, all of us decide to go to one Indian restaurant for dinner. As we planned, we went there to have some spicy food as it was our food type. Though I could have full Veg meals for breakfast and lunch, those were not much spicy. Even though there was some spicy food, there was a different taste because of the sauce they put. I think it was their own thing.

Because of these reasons, we were waiting for our dinner. Once I checked their menu, I was so happy, my dear friends. They had all kinds of Veg food I loved to have. Therefore, they resolved my problem. Thanks, Indians... However, one of my cousins wanted to have something with prawn curry, and it did not mention on the menu. Therefore, one of my brothers asked one guy to come and explained what he wants. But he did not get that and just looked at us.

So, our brother explained the prawn with its unique features. Suddenly, that guy said that "oh you are talking about prawns?" in Sinhalese. Lol… It made all of us laugh. He was a Sri Lankan and we could not identify him as most of the Asians have a similar look. Then it took a little time to manage our laugh. However, we felt happy about his Meetup. He also did not recognize us as Sri Lankans. He was a nice guy for us and he said that he came there recently. After that, we had dinner from that restaurant for the next couple of days also. However, he had Foreigner Reactions. Lol...

Once we discussed that situation later, we got to know that anybody hasn't identified him as a Sri Lankan. But later on, we saw unique Sri Lankan features and behaviors from him. I don't know what kind of blindness it was. Lol...

For the entire journey, we had that sauce a lot with our meals. That taste reduced the need for food also. Sometimes, I bought small snacks to have after the main meals to cover the rest. Most of the restaurants did not have Veg food. So, when I was asking about Veg food, it brought a smile to them. So, sometimes I checked the available food items and thought twice before asking for them. Lol... 

Finally, we reached the destination of our tour. All of us wanted to have a good meal. So, we asked one of our relative aunts to prepare something spicy. As soon as I returned, having that meal was my first task. Lol... 

However, we should control our greed irrespective of Veg or Non-Veg. If you can have your meal, without attaching it or hating it, then you are adhering to universal truth. You can enjoy the food without going to these two extremes. It will help you to end up the life circle (Sansaaraya).

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1.0 A Sister! She Is a Storm Who Stays Safe In Her Own Path.

This story describes the arrival of my younger sister who arrived in our hands as an Eskimo. As well as the feelings I had as an elder kid of our family. She is the only sibling I have. So, we two are the precious two gems of my parents. (I guess. Lol...)

I thought to start this story from the very beginning. I cannot keep in mind what happened once I was a two- or three-year-old child. This blog post consists of the first few stories that happened with the arrival of my younger sister.

Family! I thought to start my blog with a family-related thing, and I think it will help to emphasize the value of our families. In this life journey, different people will come to our lives and leave. But they will exist in our lives when compared with others. The other key thing is they are unique people in our lives. You can replace a friend or relative. But you cannot find out someone on behalf of your sibling. So, if you have a sibling, you are a lucky guy/gal in this world.

That was the day when we bring her to our home from the hospital. It was a big day for me and all of our family. It has been a long time since everybody had aforementioned that I will be able to be the eldest sister of the family. Therefore, it was a big responsibility for me. However, you may imagine the next situations among the siblings, right?

New Member of Our Family! I went to the hospital with my mother, father, and grannie to bring her from the hospital. It was my initial visit. She was very fair than me, and I could see only her beautiful face as she coated like an Eskimo. Everybody was very happy. I had to make the request many times to keep her on my lap. However, my grannie did not prefer to provide a newborn baby to me. However, with the support of my mother, I could keep sweetie Eskimo on my lap. Everybody got busy with several works along with her arrival. There were many preparations at home to welcome her. I thought that all of us were lucky fellows to have such a member to our family. I felt so proud as an elder sister.

The Struggle! The key advantage was the gifts I received from guests and most of them accustomed bring something to me as well. Some guests tried to know whether I have pretty feelings or jealous feelings regarding Eskimo.

The Visitors! That was their main question, and some of them asked me directly while the others observed my cooperation with my sibling. But I do not remember what I felt right now. Some guests worried about my Tan complexion as my sister's complexion was better than mine.  One aunt told me that I didn’t belong to this family and that I have taken from some unknown place. They laughed for their jokes though I got angry with them. Some guests tried to bring our Eskimo and requested her from me. Even though I rejected their all requests by screaming, I could see several problems were going to and fro by changing my lifestyle gradually with the arrival of 'Eskimo.

Now the struggle was massive. Eskimo was drinking Milk from the bottle. One day, my mother asked me to feed my sister by giving the milk bottle. In those days, we have used to drink two flour drinks. At that time, I needed to know what was most wonderful. Who knows that they care about her more than me? Ohh Shit...! It was a terrible drink. Sugar was not touched. However, she was drinking this like a pig, and it was good for my mind. The milk I drink was ten times a lot of delicious. That was a good day. It's all like that. As she was a little one, she would not feel the taste, I guess. Otherwise, I don't think that our cat would drink that milk powder. However, this was a sub food she got apart from breast milk.

These days my father began to see my behavior changes and perpetually wanting to involve me with most of the tasks of Eskimo. I think he tried to build a good relationship among us from the very beginning. Later on also, when we were kids, he did not like to see our fightings, and he was very serious, though we two did not care about those much as we knew that it was a few minutes' problems.

Those days we did not have mobile phones record each and everything. So, my father was in a big mission to record audio of two of us. I think he had to struggle with us to record a good conversation among us. As my sister has not grown enough to talk, my father wanted to get some responses from me. So, he came up with many questions and worked on recordings as per my feedback. I can remember my father asked ‘do you love your younger sister?’. Then he asked how much I Love Eskimo? At that point, my audio recorder had been stretching for about one minute of time to say A Lottttt.....!. Later on, it’s happy to listen to this recording by looking at the hassle I placed to express my love. However, the value of that feeling gets varying with the incident to the incident now. It depends actually. Lol... 

Recently I remembered this recording once I was recording ‘Reading initial letters’ ceremony (‘Akuru Kiyaweema’) of younger sister’s kid. Nowadays kids can look back on their childhood memories easily with the latest technology, once they become adults. They are very fortunate people to get the advantages of technologies when comparing with our childhood. However, they will feel happy if they have value only. 

So, there are several stories regarding me as a result of my younger sister. I think it would be better to jot down those memories as different short stories without writing all as one story. Hope you would agree with me. 

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