58.0 Shhhh... Listen! Do You Hear The Sound Of A Cunning Fox? The Cunning Fox Mystery.

I wanted to cover this topic with two articles. But it did not work. Still, I have some incidents to share with you all. Life Lessons! I hope you also would like to read such experiences. Sometimes it would be a lesson for you. If you can gain a good thing via my articles, it achieves one of my main goals. I know you also have much to share as a member of this society. If you can share your ideas, then it will be a help for most of us. So, as I mentioned in the previous article, you all can be contributors to this topic. 

Honestly, if I took the past incidents, I could say that my father's recognition was correct. He could identify the people in one instance. But it took some time for me to identify. When something happened only, I could identify their real face that has seen by my father before. He he he... My father pointed out the bad points of some of my friends by looking at a small action they did. But as usual, I did not have enough reasons to suspect them. I had enough reasons to convince the points that have pointed out as bad things by my father. In such a case, a few friends came for lunch at our home. 

Lunch Time! On that day, I prepared a small lunch for all of them, and our home supporter was not available on that day. So, it was a tiring day. So, after finishing the lunch stuff, one of my friends did not clean the plate that she had lunch. In the normal routine, we don't let the visitors do such tasks and it is not our expectation. 

So, it was my point, when my father was pointing out it as a bad of her. Furthermore, he said that if she is a good friend who has a long-term friendship history, then she is not a visitor anymore. As well as he said that, she did not think about the effort I put alone for their lunch. He said that it was a good incident to identify such people and deal with them accordingly. But I ignored his decision by thinking about the long-term friendship I had with her. Friends! Lol...

Tough Decisions! In this incident also, my father pointed out some cunning behavior of one of my friends. She was also a school friend, and sometimes she was like a family friend. He always suspected her talks and vocabulary. She unnecessarily appreciates small things. 

So, most of those appreciations made me happy. She appreciated every little thing without pointing out a single mistake. Sometimes she said "wow... It is nice" for some things that I have not to see any good. In such cases, I thought that she was lying. At that time, I thought that she did not want to hurt me. But I did not identify it as a dishonest quality.

Later on, I could identify her reality. Even though we were there when she wanted help, she supported our troubles via her nice talks only. Lol... In these two cases, the number of years that we all can maintain the friendship was my key reason to accept them as good people. It was a precondition I kept on my mind when I was working with them. Therefore, I had my excuses to forgive them though I saw the points mentioned by my father. And I did not want to hurt myself by accepting their bad. I think those were the two key reasons that I could not accept their badness though there was some sort of identification. If you have similar experiences, you know the complexity of balancing emotions you have with your friends and the reality that pointed out by your brain. Brain or Heart?

What is the Best Decision? Don't set up pre-defined decisions for friendships or anything. Everything will be changed. If you have such predefined decisions, then your brain starts making decisions accordingly by covering the truth. As well as try to accept the situation in the present moment. 

Don't depend on various factors. In my case, I depended on the friendship, the number of years of friendship, my feelings, etc.. Sometimes, their present behavior will hurt you once you accepted the current causes as it is without covering it by such facts. But, if you use the same strategy that you had to deal with them, then it will make you sad one day. It will happen either today or after some time. So, it is better to accept the present and keep such people in the necessary places in your life. Lifetime Friends? Are they exist on our planet?

So, those were some observations that happened among the friends' community. Toxic Coworkers! This also a good incident that I could happily share with you. In this case, my decision was more than 100% correct. On that day, we all had a session in a meeting room in our workplace. There were about twenty to twenty-five people. A few newcomers also were there.

It was boring like nothing and dragged hours and hours. As there was a small number of participants, we all had to concentrate on that session. So, it was the main pain. If I could check my social media stuff, then it would not be a headache. All of us were waiting for its finish. But it did not happen at the scheduled time. Boring Chores... Hah hah ha... 

Washroom Prank! At our table, there was a new joiner also and he said that he wanted to go to the washroom. But he did not come back for the session. We could not contact him as we did not have his contact details. So, he nicely went out.  At that time, he did not forget to keep his pen and the paper on the table to convince us of his return that never happen. Lol… So, when I was leaving the room finally, I thought about that strategy. He gave a separate image to us also. Therefore, I thought that he should be a cunning person. Luckily, I did not forget to keep it on my mind when dealing with him. It was the correct decision. Finally, it was correct, guys!!!

Apart from his cunning behavior, I think he taught a lesson as well. He pointed out that we need to make some kind of sacrifice if we want to get rid of some trouble. So, in this case, he forgets about his pen and papers. But I decided that action as a cunning thing and not an intelligent one. He was a Cunning Fox.

He did not have a reason to say lie to us as he knew that all of us were waiting to go. Therefore, giving a different view about him for the colleagues who were going to work with him for a couple of years was the mistake he did as a cunning guy. If you were that fellow, how do you manage that situation by keeping your good image with co-workers? When I was asked that question for myself, I did not have a need to go out till it finished. I wanted to participate till the end though it was boring. Lol... Lol... But what is your answer? What is Your Decision?

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